Un amour condamné

Le voile de son amour illusoire et platonique se déchire. Non limité par l'appareil symbolique et mis à nu par l’imaginaire, le réel domine le sujet et conditionne le passage à l’acte radical. Celui qui est la cause de la dévastation de son monde symbolique doit mourir dans la réalité.

Les amours douloureuses
Painful Loves

Duelar

This is the moment I define as the face of painful love in transference. What is the turning point of this duelar at the end of an analysis? Even though we know it is contingent and that exits from analysis are singular and unique, I propose that this duelar marks a turning point in transference — that is never reduced to zero but instead shifts and becomes attached to the institution, to the School.

Les amours douloureuses
Painful Loves

Le transfert, à rebours d’un amour douloureux

De ce fait, le transfert ne peut pas être un amour douloureux ; à rebours, dans l’expérience de l’analyse, il devient un amour plus digne, où s’inscrit « cette Spaltung dernière par où le sujet s’articule au Logos  ». Est-ce là l’indication du fantasme fondamental ?

Les amours douloureuses
Painful Loves

Possessed by Love

The symptom is being written in the present. Love’s madness is felt first as being loved, which is what Erato’s name carries. Ergo, love proceeds from inexistence. It is the cry in the solitary signifier that hooks, as Cupid shoots his arrow, onto the beloved.

Les amours douloureuses
Painful Loves

Ideal Incubus

She desires an ideal incubus, a castrated man, one that keeps her in the status of “having” rather than “being”. When laying in her fantasies with this ideal incubus, woman does not lack, therefore does not desire. What she is, is enjoying, which can also be seen in the image The Nightmare by Henry Fuseli.

Les amours douloureuses
Painful Loves